Divas, today I am going to be revealing to you the FIVE qualities and behaviours that make a woman feminine to a man and drive men crazy. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or confused by the concept of feminine energy, fear not! This blog post is here to make this concept easy and enjoyable for you to learn.
As a globally successful dating and relationship coach and someone who has led HUNDREDS of beautiful, successful women into finding empowered masculine men who go absolutely crazy for them, I’m thrilled to share practical feminine behaviors that any woman can embrace to captivate masculine and empowered men.
So, let’s dive into the top 5 feminine behaviors that drive men absolutely crazy! Ready?
Feminine Behavior 1 – The Sweetness Of A Smile
When you’re attracted to a man, one of the most feminine and endearing things you can do is simply smile. Sounds TOO simple right?
As small as this action seems, this soft and sweet gesture communicates your happiness and joy in his presence.
So, ditch the poker face and let your emotions shine through.
When you genuinely smile around a man you like, it creates a positive and inviting atmosphere that draws him closer to you.
Not only does this show your emotion around him, but studies have also shown that men find women who smile a lot more attractive. You are beautiful, dazzle him with your smile!
This is not just true for single women by the way. Glancing at your partner with that gorgeous smile of yours, makes the two of you connect as well. In fact, I try this on my husband Chris all the time at home, especially when I am craving to connect more with him.
Feminine Behavior 2 – Appreciation
Men adore being appreciated, especially for the efforts they make towards you as a woman.
Expressing genuine gratitude and complimenting them for their actions is a powerful feminine behavior that drives men crazy.
This is especially important for powerful and successful women, like myself and my clients.
It can be SO easy to fall into business-like conversation and to take his effort for granted.
Remember to thank him for his kind gestures! It makes them feel valued and encourages them to continue investing in the relationship.
When a man feels like he can win your heart and make you happy, he’ll be more motivated to pursue you.
If you are a ‘Poker Face’ kinda gal, and struggle with sending out those appreciative ‘Thank Yous’ out of fear of coming across as TOO eager or too smitten – don’t judge yourself!
I was the exact same way!
I artificially held myself back from giving compliments and gratitude out of fear that I would come across like I have never had anyone do anything nice for me. That is a LIE!
What I have found is the more effort you make to show appreciation and gratitude toward their efforts, it will come second nature to you. No matter the size of the gesture, let him know how much you appreciate it!
A man goes CRAZY for a woman he wants to pursue. If you want him to continue to pursue you, make him feel like he’s always winning. After all, you are the prize!
Feminine Behavior 3 – The Power of Listening
Divas… just listening to a man goes a LONG way!
One of the most powerful feminine behaviors that men absolutely love, is when we can just listen.
This concept can be a little intimidating, especially, as a strong, confident, brilliant woman!
I remember feeling extremely turned off by the idea that I just had to ‘sit and be quiet’ in order to be appealing to a man when I was in the dating scene almost 11 years ago.
Here’s what you need to know about this feminine power… When a strong masculine man takes you on a date, it is almost like an audition for them. They want to impress you!
When you just listen to them and show genuine interest, they feel seen and most of all accepted. Giving them your full attention makes them want to be around you more, to seek after you.
Sometimes, when you meet an empowered masculine man with serious potential, the pressure to showcase your brilliance kicks in. We’ve all been there, right? You want to impress him, so you find yourself talking a lot, filling the silences, and trying to be witty and interesting.
Listening to a man as he shares about himself, his challenges, and his aspirations can be a game-changer. It’s a gift you give him—an opportunity for the feminine energy to make the masculine feel truly heard.
You still are that powerful, amazing, strong, educated woman! But it is okay to just listen when you have a masculine, high-quality man wanting your attention.
Listening and paying attention to him when he speaks will have him pining after you for years to come!
Feminine Behavior 4 – Open Body Language That Invites Connection
Picture yourself on a date, and remember, we’re all about breaking free from those stiff and guarded vibes.
So, no crossed arms or tense shoulders! Instead, keep your chest open, flash that beautiful smile, and maintain direct eye contact.
And here’s the flirty secret: don’t be shy to give him a light touch on the arm once in a while. It’s like a secret code that says, “Hey, you’re funny,” or “You made me smile,”
These subtle gestures send subconscious signals to the opposite sex, letting them know that you’re interested, find them attractive, and wouldn’t mind a second date or even a kiss, if that is what you want.
After helping so many women find their dream men, one of the biggest feminine behaviors that drive men absolutely crazy is body language!
Your body language is the bridge between a man actively wanting to continue dating and his pursuit of you, or him backing off.
Now, let’s take a moment to empathize with the guys out there. They face rejection left and right in the dating world. So, as a woman embracing your feminine energy, your mission is to become a safe haven for the masculine.
You want him to feel confident that if he makes a move towards you, you won’t reject or push him away. Put yourself in his shoes—imagine how empowering it would be for him to have that reassurance.
So, remember to show up with that open body language, flash that killer smile, and don’t hesitate to make those subtle touches.
You’re creating a space where the pursuit becomes easier for him without being too obvious. It’s all about letting him know, “Hey, I like you, and I think you’re intriguing.”
So, ladies, let’s make dating a more enjoyable experience for both parties by being that safe container where connections can flourish.
Feminine Behavior 5 – Embracing Playfulness
When you tap into your playfulness, you’re not only showcasing your authenticity, but you’re also exuding a magnetic charm that empowered masculine men find absolutely irresistible.
They’re drawn to the vibrant energy you bring to the table. It’s like a magnetic force that creates an instant connection.
So, don’t be afraid to dance like nobody’s watching, crack jokes, and even challenge him with a little sarcasm.
Embracing your playfulness shows that you’re comfortable in your own skin and that you’re not afraid to let loose and have a great time.
Masculine and powerful men crave women who embody their authenticity!
As a successful businesswoman who is now happily married to the man of my dreams, remember that I once sat where you are! The dating scene can be overwhelming, but if you are looking to attract a strong masculine man, don’t be afraid to offer a place of lightheartedness and fun.
Again, I still bring this feminine behavior to my marriage as well, so this is not just valid for single women.
Let’s recap on the 5 Feminine Behaviors that drive men WILD…
From the sweetness of your smile to expressing appreciation, active listening, open body language, and playful banter, these five feminine behaviors will captivate empowered masculine men.
So, the next time you find yourself on a date or around your partner, remember to embrace your feminine energy, have fun, and let your irresistible charm shine through.
Love and connection are within your reach, and I’m here to support you every step of the way.
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