In the realm of romantic relationships, you will often see that it's emphasized that physical attraction draws a man and a woman together.
And while the initial physical attraction is important without doubt, you will agree that sustaining a meaningful connection requires more than just surface-level or sexual appeal.
In my work, I teach the power of building emotional attraction with high quality men.
Emotional attraction between a man and a woman is that powerful invisible force that binds two people together on a deeper level, fostering intimacy, trust, and understanding.
When it comes to captivating a high-quality man for the long-term, I recommend all my clients in Elevate to focus on building emotional attraction that can lay the foundation for a fulfilling and lasting relationship.
So, in today’s blog, I am going to give you my top tips on how you can foster emotional attraction in a high quality man's heart. We will stay broad in this blog.
If you want more in-depth tools, you can check out my advanced program building emotional attraction with high quality men video program over here.
Now let's delve into the art of cultivating emotional connection with a man of substance.
But before that I have a little personal story with my husband that I want to start with.
Some time ago, hubby and I had a little “energetic” disturbance.
I had come online promising him that my Facebook livestream will be over in 10 mins and then we can go out for the dinner date he had planned for us.
However, I ended up spending 40 mins there!!!
Poor hubby, ready in fab clothes, waited and waited….
When I got off the call, I felt great after having connected with you all, but he felt pissed.
“I’ve been waiting 45 mins honey. That wasn’t our plan.”
And instead of just listening to him (I’d have definitely felt pissed if he had done that to me), instead of recognizing that I had accidentally not respected the promise I had made to him…
… I could feel myself wanting to go immediately into defense mode.
I wanted to say “But I can’t leave my ladies asking questions” or “You could just be happy for me instead of complaining about the time.”
Thanks to the work I do and teach you divas – I didn’t say any of that, and I took a deep breath instead.
I recognized immediately that these were my demons barking at me.
He was just being honest at his disappointment and wanted to be heard, but my system heard it as “blame”.
You see, when we’re emotionally triggered, we want to say all sorts of things and coming from that place of act -react doesn’t serve love….
I told him I needed to take a moment to process what he just said and I retreated into the bedroom to get a moment off by myself.
I did a body/feelings tracking tool on myself.
30 mins passed – I fell asleep.
Then something amazing happened.
This wonderful man came in, with a bowl of fruit and yogurt, saying “Honey, you haven’t eaten anything since lunch. You need to eat this now. It’s my offering to my Goddess. And can we please resolve these bad feelings, so that I can have my smiling Sami back and we can go to our dinner date?”
In that instant, my heart just melted.
All the anger, all the demons, all the resentment, all the “imagined” confusion, “imagined” blame disappeared.
We kissed, we talked and he sorted it out for us. The date felt amazing – like with a revived fire.
So why am I sharing this with you?
I share this with you because ALL intimate relationships have these moments where the energy between two people gets disturbed, because his or your emotional stuff comes up.
And it’s so important to have the EMOTIONAL TENACITY, EMOTIONAL CAPACITY AND EMOTIONAL WILLINGNESS to go through that discomfort with your partner, for you both and sort it out instead of running away, withdrawing or completely disappearing…
Mature men have this capacity. Mature people, men and women, should develop this capacity in themselves.
So now let´s address some broad major factors that help build emotional attraction with high quality men.
1. Authenticity is Key:
High-quality men are drawn to your authenticity like moths to a flame.
Being genuine and true to yourself creates a sense of trust and reliability, which are essential ingredients for emotional attraction.
Pretense and facades may attract attention momentarily, but they seldom lead to genuine connections with a good man.
Embrace your quirks, vulnerabilities, and imperfections; they make you unique and relatable to the right man.
Inside the building emotional attraction program, I will give you many practical tools to help you express yourself authentically to men.
2. Feminine Communication:
Effective and feminine communication forms the bedrock of any successful relationship.
High-quality men appreciate women who can articulate their thoughts, feelings, and desires openly and honestly and speak to a man with respect.
Inside the building emotional attraction program, I will teach you how to listen actively to what he has to say, and respond with empathy and understanding.
3. Show Interest in His Passions:
Demonstrating genuine interest in a man´s passions and pursuits can ignite a spark of emotional connection towards you. Whether it's his career, hobbies, or personal goals, take the time to understand what makes him tick.
Engage in meaningful conversations about his interests, ask questions, and show enthusiasm for his achievements.
Your genuine interest will not only make him feel valued but also strengthen the emotional bond between you.
4. Respect and Admiration:
Respect is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. High-quality men seek partners who respect their opinions, values, and boundaries.
Acknowledge his strengths, accomplishments, and virtues, and express genuine admiration for the person he is.
Mutual respect fosters a sense of validation and appreciation, nurturing emotional intimacy and connection.
Inside the building emotional attraction program, I will show you how to stop doing behaviors that disrespect a man or emasculate him unintentionally.
5. Shared Experiences and Memories:
Creating shared experiences and memories builds a sense of intimacy and belonging.
Whether it's exploring new places, trying new activities, or simply spending quality time together, shared moments strengthen the emotional bond between partners.
Invest time and effort into creating meaningful experiences that you both cherish, as they form the fabric of your relationship.
6. Support Through Thick and Thin:
High-quality men value partners who stand by them through life's ups and downs.
Offer your unwavering support during challenging times, lending a listening ear, providing encouragement, and being a pillar of strength.
Knowing that you have his back no matter what fosters a deep sense of emotional connection and security.
7. Emotional Intelligence:
Emotional intelligence plays a pivotal role in building emotional attraction.
High-quality men are drawn to women who possess self-awareness, empathy, and the ability to navigate their emotions effectively.
This is one of the most foundational blocks I will teach you inside the Building Emotional Attraction program.
8. Maintain Independence:
While building emotional connection is essential, maintaining independence is equally crucial.
High-quality men appreciate partners who have their own interests, goals, and aspirations.
Pursue your passions, invest in personal growth, and maintain a sense of independence within the relationship.
Balancing emotional connection with individual autonomy fosters mutual respect and admiration, enriching the relationship.
9. Celebrate Vulnerability:
Vulnerability is not a sign of weakness but rather a testament to strength and authenticity.
High-quality men value female partners who are willing to be vulnerable and share their innermost thoughts and feelings.
Create a safe space where both of you can express vulnerability without fear of judgment or rejection.
Embracing vulnerability fosters intimacy and deepens the emotional connection between partners.
If vulnerability feels scary, I got you.
I will give you practical tools inside my advanced program Building Emotional Attraction on how to embrace vulnerability in a way that brings you both closer.
Ready to dive deeper into learning about how to build Emotional Attraction with the man in your life or the men you are going on dates with?
As a single woman, this is going to be your key feminine weapon to get men to open up to you and bonding with you.
Knowing how to build emotional attraction will help you break the spell of endless first dates and actually get to quality second, third and more dates invites from the same man, building something meaningful with him.
As a partnered woman, building emotional attraction with your man will bring back the laughter, the spark, the intimacy in your connection and believe it or not, will also heat things up in the bedroom.
I am excited to help you create this kind of magical emotional attraction with the man in your life.
This is going to open up a whole new world of adoration and devotion for you and he will not be able to stop himself from wanting to be your hero, your provider, your protector.
Here is what you will be learning in this advanced program: Building Emotional Attraction With High Quality Men
(I have not taught this material in ANY of my self-study programs, not even in Leap Into Love or Elevate!)
Video Training #1: Recognizing Blocks To Emotional Attraction (90 mins)
Emotional Attraction is magic, and you're going to be Diva Enchantress who practices this sorcery, leaving men feeling bewitched.
Jokes apart, Training #1 is all about understanding the differences between physical attraction, Emotional Attraction, chemistry and intimacy, when it comes to our men.
1) If you’re blocking Emotional Attraction from happening, developing, and sustaining – we are going to get to the bottom of it! Through client examples and stories, mine included, you will learn exactly what NOT to do when it comes to creating and maintaining emotional attraction.
2) You will also learn to spot the signs that Emotional Attraction is not building enough in your interactions with men, or your man.
This will take away the confusion and “What's wrong with me?” kind of statements from your experiences, and help you become more objective with finding solutions that stick and tick.
Video Training #2:The Explosive Emotional Attraction Combo
After all the ‘DON'T DO's of the previous part, Training #2 is where I finally reveal how men bond and connect in a romantic context.
You will discover the 2 secret elements that allow Emotional Attraction to develop for him (one of them might surprise you!)
Practiced together and in the right amounts, these 2 explosive elements will be the glue that binds his heart to yours! And in this training, I teach you exactly how to do that and give you practical tools to implement each of the 2 elements.
Training #2 also includes a short but supremely powerful Guided Meditation experience that deeply touched the participants in the live edition of this program.
Video Training #3: How To Build Emotional Attraction TOOLBOX (90 mins)
You will have your hands full after this!
Training #3 carries on and builds upon the richness of Training #2, where we get deeper into a multitude of handy, practical tools that you can use straight away, on the man you're on a date with or your husband of many years.
I take you through the tools, help you practice them, and turn you into a master attractor.
The two versions of the program (which you can choose after purchase) include many different, specialized Emotional Attraction tools for singles and women in relationships, respectively.
The recording of this training also includes a Q&A section, where I took up some great questions from the participants in the live edition. How I reply to these women just like you is extremely valuable to learn from!
You get to keep the program for lifetime access and right now I am giving some incredible bonuses inside it as well. If you have any questions about the program, email us at support@samiwunder.com
P.S. This is an advanced, highly specific and practical program, giving you specialized skills on how to build emotional attraction with high quality men. You can choose if you want the singles track or the women in relationships track.
It assumes familiarity with my basic concepts such as self-love, leaning back, feminine energy, or understanding how men think and are different from us women.