As a love coach, one of the most satisfying aspects of my job is to be able to see the impact that my work is making in the life of another human being.
Here is a letter / a testimonial / a story sharing of a beautiful woman I know and coached and who went from devastating heart break to devastatingly confident, radiant and open for love in a matter of a few months.
I felt inspired by the narration. I hope you do too.
Thank you for being such an inspiration for me when my relationship and seemingly my world was falling apart.
During our session, you gave me hope that I could get myself out of the pits of despair by focusing on the very beautiful things in my life and NOT just on this one man.
In our session, when you had me actually put my arms around myself and hug myself, I started to cry because I realized I wasn’t LOVING ME! I was putting all of my energy into making my man’s life comfortable and good for him. In doing so, I was hurting tremendously on the inside, because none of my needs were being met. My eyes were opened to the fact that I deserved the same kind of love and energy for MYSELF.
Though I still felt pain for some time from the break-up, I was able to use the tools you gave me in our coaching session to help me to shift my energy towards myself and my family. The feelings of my unworthiness began to fade and I began to see the world differently. You helped me to realise that I was working too hard for a relationship that really wasn’t good for me or my children.
Several months later, here I am… LOVING MY LIFE and feeling worthy. As I read your articles and your social media posts, I am continually inspired to live a life where I am my biggest cheerleader and protector.
I live a life that is open to all people and good feelings. I have been able to step away from the relationship I was too focused on and see it now for what it was… a toxic, dead-end, depleting relationship.
Your guidance has been a catalyst for me to shift my life into a direction that feels fantastic and free and full of love. I have learned to surround myself with people who encourage me, support me and make me feel good. I am no longer chasing men or involving myself with any man who isn’t moving towards me on his own. I have full and busy life that is overflowing with activities and people who nourish me and the essence of who I am. Instead of working myself to death to try to please one man, I am now happily single and dating multiple men who are good and giving and who want to make ME happy instead of expecting me to give to them all of the time.
I have learned to recognise situations and people who make me feel “icky” and now have the strength to totally turn away from them. This is something I never would have done before.
Through learning these things and so many more, I have finally taken the steps to start the business I have been dreaming of for 3 years now. I am already halfway through my certification program and look forward to launching it by the end of the year.
Who would have thought all this was possible way back in February when I sat looking at you over Skype with tears rolling down my face? You made taking the steps to recovery and finding fullfillment inside myself SO easy to understand. Your confidence in me bolstered my own strength.
Thank you, Sami for being so wonderful and such an inspiration to me. The changes in me have changed the dynamics of my relationship with my children, with men and with the world. I am so proud to be able to lead my young daughters in a healthy way to relate to men. Your coaching planted a seed of healthy way of relating in my life. These are now being sowed into the lives of my beautiful daughters and even my two magnificent sons.
Thank you for helping me to dig down, plant those seeds, learn to water them and love them in a way so that they can continue to grow in my life and the lives of all the ones I love.
You are amazing, Sami Wunder! Truly amazing!
Love and Light!