With texting becoming the most common way of communicating (and flirting), sometimes it can become hard to know how to act. For example, should you answer the emoji text your new date sent you? What’s a Diva to do? Read below as I answer a question from a reader about texting, emojis… and men.
“Hi Sami. The guy I have now seen for two dates sent me two emojis as a text after not communicating for the last four days. Should I reply? Thank you. Amy”
Easy answer: No!
Wunder Divas don’t reply to such useless, meaningless, low effort text messages.
We’ve got men chasing the hell out of us. We’ve got men running over each other to secure our time and get a date with us. How could we even find the time and energy to bother to answer someone who couldn’t take a minute to write us a proper, minimally respectful message?
Will this make you lose him? May be.
And if he’s so easily lost, he is probably not worth keeping.
it is important to remember that when you are connected with your true power, you will naturally filter out many, many, many men and that is an AWESOME thing because it will reduce your pool only to the worthy ones, the serious ones.
A man’s job, especially in the early phases of dating, is to impress the woman and to ask her out for a date. At this early stage, men display their absolute best behaviour to woo you. If this is a man’s best, he’s probably not going to cut the chase in the long run.
It doesn’t make him a bad guy. He’s probably just a guy who wants it easy and hence not a good fit for you.
So leave those emojis, unanswered. Let him live with the mystery of why such an amazing woman disappeared on him. Don’t try to make it work out with a man who is putting such low effort already at the start.
And believe it or not, when you won’t try to make it work with the low effort men, they will often actually step up their effort because all of a sudden – you appear high value to them.
“How come she didn’t respond to MY TWO EMOJIS?” 😀 😀
Being a high value woman in dating rocks.
I highly recommend you to read my ebook “Your Feminine Roadmap To His Commitment“ to learn the high value behaviours feminine energy women display in dating that help them effortlessly get the love and commitment they desire.
To your success in love,