How To WIN In Love + Christmas Sale!

Let’s do a little thought experiment. From the two scenarios below, which woman do you think with “win” in love and with men?

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Scenario A For First Date Set Up: 

Man – “Hey, sorry. I have to cancel tonight. Boss says team meeting may take longer.” 

Woman A immediately – “No problem. You can always make it up to me on another date. I am free this Sunday after 6 pm. Let me know if that works for you.” 


Man – “Haha. Yes, we have to see about that. Work can be annoying at times.”

Scenario B For First Date Set Up: 

Man – “Hey, sorry. I have to cancel tonight. Boss says team meeting may take longer.” 

Woman B – “Ok.” 

Man after two hours, knowing that he’s not probably going to hear more from her – “I know this is upsetting. I can’t wait to make it up to you. When are you free next?” 

Woman B – “Sunday 6 pm can work.. but only up for grabs if you promise to make it.” 

Man – “You bet I will cross mountains and be there!” 

Expert Analysis – Which Woman Will WIN In Love?

While this is am early dating scenario example, it is equally relevant for women in committed relationships. For them, this applies to those cases whern uncomfortable conversing with their men occur – in other words, how to win in love with YOUR man!

No matter your relationship status, if you want to win in love, it’s crucial to understand the power of respecting the polarity of masculine / feminine energies and the role they play in building and keeping attraction alive.

Now, are both these women in the above dating scenario AMAZING and deserve grand love? 

Absolutely. Heck yeah! 

But which woman do you think creates a deeper, instinctive attraction in the man and actually goes on that date to get things started, i.e., wins in love? 

Woman B, any day! 

And her words don’t really matter as much, because her ENERGY is on point!

Now here’s how these two women, who are otherwise identical in their career success, status and good looks, are creating completely different emotional experiences when it comes to their romantic interactions with men: 

With woman A gives him a time for the next date without him asking for it himself. 

His sub-conscious mind goes: “Ah. She’s in and ready and available. Nothing to hunt. No challenge.” 

Woman A has what I call in the Wunder world, the “leading” energy in dating, or popularly called Masculine Energy. She has no qualms about making things happen to just move things forward to the date.

Just that this energy actually SLOWS your speed down in dating, because it makes masculine men recoil and withdraw energetically. Remember he said –  “Let’s see about that.” 

With woman B, however, she understands the power of detail and nuances, and more than anything, she understands the power of being in her surrendered feminine energy around the man.

She is relaxed and not trying to make anything happen. 

She is also not being overtly nice or friendly to the man (no good girl!).

She is just being objective, respecting his leadership + she’s establishing a standard. 

She creates space for him to step up and lead. 

Who does the man want to rise up for? 

Woman B, as clear as day. 

How To Win In Love

Every day, I see many amazing women in my community focus so much on superficial texting and “what to say to a man” kind of approaches to men. 

And they don’t really work… unless you understand the energetics of the Masculine and Feminine exchange. 

Who is leading in the energy exchange, and who is surrendered? 

Today, I invite you to go deeper into understanding how emotional attraction and Masculine / Feminine Energy Polarity actually works, and put your focus on learning and implementing that in your interactions with men… because when you do that, it all starts to feel easy and crystal clear… as to why they behave they way they do. 

Even if you’re a hyper-powered, successful woman who likes to go FAST, FAST, FAST — understanding and implementing energy polarity will change the game for you. 

Diva Tip 1: In dating, slowing down will actually make you go faster with masculine, empowered men, as your slowing down makes them want to speed up!

Diva Tip 2: In relationships, when you slow down and let him lead, you will make your man “feel” the chills like he first felt when he met you!

And finally, some happy Diva news to wrap up with & help you win in love!!! 

With the holiday season being here, we’re giving away a tremendous amount of value to our community in the form of Holiday Bundles that will be available for grabs at a whooping 78 % discount to support your diva-ness amongst the festivities!!!

All you you need to do is get on the waitlist by clicking here to receive a note from us for when the discounts are open. 

We are giving away Singles Bundles and Relationship Bundles (both never sold before, not even on Pink Tuesday!) and they will include the following masterclasses:

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The Single Diva Queen’s Holiday Bundle contains:

1. The 5 Stages Of The Soulmate-Attraction Process

Recognise the 5 stages of the soulmate-attraction process, and the tools you need to win in love and navigate to the next level of each. 

At the end of this masterclass, you will be able to look at your own love life as an expert and self-assess – where the blocks are and what needs to be released. Pretty powerful, yes?

2. Recognizing & Healing Intimacy Fears

If no man ever feels good enough, or you start to get judgmental and nitpick on any man that likes you, this masterclass will change the game for you, forever.

Stop judging, start letting love in! This is my hardcore expertise and I am giving it away to you at an insane individual price or discounted bundle price. 

3. Positive Tension In Dating

Did you know that frustrating a man in the dating process is actually good for you, and fires up his desire for you?

If you’re the Good Girl who accommodates men and gets left behind, this masterclass will take your dating skills to a whole new dimension. Frustrate him, keep him hooked!

A Bonus surprise gift from me on people- and man-pleasing this holiday season! 

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The Married/In A Relationship Diva Queen’s Holiday Bundle contains:

The 5 Stages Of Committed Relationships
Recognise the 5 stages that committed relationships go through, and the tools you need to navigate to the next level of each.

At the end of this masterclass, you will be able to look at your own relationship as an expert and self-assess. Pretty powerful, yes?

Recognizing & Stopping The Overgiving/Resentment Cycle
Learn what over-giving looks like in relationships and marriages, and why it is so destructive to attraction.

Overcome this unhealthy habit, and watch your relationship thrive once again! 

Positive Tension In Marriage & Relationships
Good girls don’t only finish last in dating. They also finish last in marriages and relationships.

Learn how you can keep the tension alive in a marriage in a healthy way, for your man to keep coming after you with renewed desire. Positive tension is hot!!

A Bonus surprise gift from me on people- and man-pleasing this holiday season! 

Get on the waitlist here and get ready to access this magic at a whooping 78% off this 20th to 22nd December! 

It is the season of faith, love and joy!

Thank you for being a part of my community and for your trust.  

To your thumping success in love, 
Sami Wunder 

Sami Wunder

Dating and Relationship Coach at Sami Wunder Coaching
Sami Wunder is a certified dating and relationship coach, a blogger and inspirational speaker. She helps women all over the world reconnect with their feminine energy and attract and keep the man of their dreams.

Sami has been seen on The Daily Mail, The Elephant Journal, The Natural Health Magazine, and The Huffington Post.

Sami Wunder

Sami Wunder is a certified dating and relationship coach, a blogger and inspirational speaker. She helps women all over the world reconnect with their feminine energy and attract and keep the man of their dreams. Sami has been seen on The Daily Mail, The Elephant Journal, The Natural Health Magazine, and The Huffington Post.